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Cassie & Miriam's Intimate Backyard Wedding

While I occasionally will second for friends photographing weddings, I haven't taken on my own wedding clients in several years. This is primarily because wedding photography is a marathon, unpredictable in terms of what you're working with for light and location, and incredibly high pressure. There's usually a tight timeline, and you get one (to five) shots to document multiple (hopefully) once in a lifetime moments. It's not the ideal activity for a neurodivergent person with a limited social battery and anxiety. Don't get me wrong, it's also creatively fun and exciting but the stakes are really high!


Cassie & Miriam were referred through a mutual acquaintance, and when I heard the details I was in.

Two gold wedding bands in their boxes, in-between a pair of sparkly silver sandals

They were having an intimate backyard wedding with only family in attendance. They wanted a few hours of photographic coverage. Miriam had family flying in from Norway for the special day. We corresponded a bit and it was a great fit.


Two women embracing, one is lifting the other up, they are smiling at each other.

Cassie & Miriam are not only caring and generous hosts, they also were very coachable and flexible in terms of their schedule and itinerary. I'm so glad they agreed to do a first look.


A pre-teen boy guides his mom through the yard, she is blindfolded
Two boys walk a woman wearing a white suit and a blindfold through a green yard
Two women stand facing each other blindfolded, two boys stand behind them grinning
Two women wearing wedding attire lift their blindfolds and have their first look
Two women wearing wedding attire embrace just after having their first look
One woman twirls another during a first look at their wedding

Then they popped some champagne before we took a few intimate portraits.

Two women stand facing the camera kissing. One is holding a champagne bottle.
Two women stand in the sunshine toasting with their champagne glasses. One wears a wedding dress the other a white suit.
A black and white photo of two women sitting on the ground enjoying champagne together, about to kiss
Two women clasp hands and look at each other, the photo is looking up at them.
Two women from the shoulders down, one wears an embroidered wedding dress and sparkly sandals, the other wears a form fitting suit and white sneakers with yellow socks. They are holding hands and facing each other.

Everyone was ready for the ceremony!


The floofiest golden retriever sits and smiles at the camera, he is wearing a teal tie. Behind him is a wedding arch and seats.

After being walked down the aisle by family, their ceremony included heartfelt vows, exchanging rings, and a sand mixing ritual with Cassie, Miriam, and their two boys.


A black and white photo of two women getting married. They are holding hands and laughing
A photo of four people completing a sand ceremony at a wedding
Two women who are newly married jubilantly laugh together facing the camera. One of the women holds a large bouquet of sunflowers, statice, pink roses, and daisies. The woman holding the bouquet wears a wedding dress and the other woman wears a white vest and collared shirt.
Two women face away from the camera and have their back arms linked, they lean in for a kiss. They are standing in a lush green yard.

Coincidentally, New Haven Pride was happening the day after their wedding, so they stopped by my photobooth and we ran out for a few pictures between the rain showers.


Two women embrace and kiss standing on the rainbow crosswalk during New Haven Pride in New Haven CT
One woman is picking up another in an embrace on the rainbow crosswalk during New Haven Pride in New Haven CT
Two women embrace in a dip pose during New Haven Pride in New Haven CT

I am so honored to have been part of Miriam & Cassie's story and special day. They even have me rethinking my hesitancy around photographing weddings.


SO here is a questionnaire for anyone who is interested in discussing wedding or elopement photography. I'd love to see if we are a fit!



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